“Whenever conferring with
another – either face to face or across the miles – whether a human being,
departed spirit, or sentient tree, always speak to the highest within
them. It makes such a difference.”
Mike Dooley
When
you read this quote, don’t you intuitively know the truth of it?! Yes, because whether you have
consciously thought about this or not, you have experienced it. We have all experienced the power of
certain people to call out the best in us. And this happens because those people see us in our highest
light, speak to the best in us, and hold a perception of us that reflects all
the goodness that we are. And in
the presence of someone who persists in seeing, honoring and speaking to the
highest in us, we cannot but respond with our best.
This
is the greatest gift you can give another person. And in giving it you receive the greatest gift in
return. YOU get back from that
person what you have insisted on seeing in them.
Of
course this also holds true when you insist on seeing less than the highest in
another person. Whatever you
consistently see and speak to is what you will receive.
When
someone in your life is showing up for you in less than their highest version
of themselves, you don’t have to wait for them to change. YOU are the only person who ever needs
to change. Consciously search for
the brightest expression of your friend (spouse, co-worker, child, family
member, neighbor) and see and speak only to that person. It makes all the difference.
Few
people change due to our ‘judgments’ about them. Nearly all will respond to our unquestioning belief in their
goodness.